The majority of people who have big dreams, give up on themselves before they ever experience the dreams coming true.
Dreams are the fuel that ignite our passions, propel us forward, and give meaning to our lives. We all have dreams and aspirations, but it's disheartening to see that so many people give up along the way. Although it can be emotionally challenging to watch people achieve things we long to achieve, deep down, we know we FAR prefer to see evidence the dreams we dream can, and DO, come true…
In my opinion, it is far worse to watch people quit, fail, complain, or try to disprove other people’s success… These are the things that perpetuate more failure…
These are the most obvious reasons people give up:
Fear of Failure: One of the most common reasons people give up on their dreams is the paralyzing fear of failure. The thought of stepping out of their comfort zone, taking risks, and potentially facing setbacks can be overwhelming. As a result, they settle for the familiar and abandon their dreams or goals for the year.
Lack of Self-Belief: Many individuals lack the belief in themselves and their abilities. They may have experienced past failures or faced criticism from others, leading to self-doubt. Without a strong belief in their own potential, they find it difficult to persevere and keep pursuing their dreams.
External Influences: The opinions and judgments of others can significantly impact one's dedication to their dreams. Negative comments, societal pressures, or well-meaning advice from loved ones can discourage individuals from staying committed to their aspirations. They may choose to conform to societal expectations rather than following their own path.
Impatience and Instant Gratification: We live in a fast-paced world where instant gratification is highly valued. When dreams don't materialize as quickly as we think they should, most become impatient and lose faith. They seek immediate results and may give up prematurely, not realizing that success often requires time, persistence, and consistent effort.
Lack of Clarity and Direction: Without a clear vision and potential trajectory, dreams can seem distant and unattainable. Many struggle with setting specific goals and mapping out the steps needed to achieve them. The absence of direction can lead to confusion and a lack of motivation, ultimately causing dreams to fade away.
For the past 10 years, I have practiced a vision and goal setting process that has had a huge influence on me being able to create and manifest alot of what I have inside of my life - Including within my business, with my relationship and achieving personal dreams and goals.
Although this process may be considered a little "unorthodox" I want to invite you into an interactive, online class where we can go through the process together and you can apply it in real time, using nothing accept a calendar, post-its and a pencil.
Together on 31st Jan, we will come together on zoom and bring the energy from your mind and abandoned desires from the beginning of the year and set them into motion with powerful intent and a few smart practices. You will see and feel it's possible to have the things you want, in the timing and in the way it is meant to appear in your life.